We are having immediate family and wedding party only at the courthouse and then celebrating with lunch & cake at a restaurant.
People understand they are not invited to the wedding BUT keep asking me if they can still come to my shower and bachelorette party.
What should I say? If they are aware they are not invited to our smaller ceremony, can my MOH still invite them to these parties? People are acting kinda butthurt when I don't immediately answer "Of course you are still invited to these other parties!!!".
I have been able bean dip thus far because these parties will be at the tail end of summer.....but I am running out of time with that answer.