If I do a special type of dance with my dad (hand dance to hip hop I think), does it look like we are leaving my fiance and her dad out? We are two brides, and her dad is involved in the wedding and my dad is not, also, they are more reserved than my family. My fiance's dad suggested we all 4 do Thriller, and he sounded disappointed that we planned something separate. I am not sure what to do now. The reason we were going to do something different is because he is in a large electric wheelchair which would make dancing very difficult.