I need some advice. My best friend and I are both engaged. As we planned in high school she would be my maid of honor and I would be hers. I was going to have a civil ceremony this month, and she was going to wait. At first it all worked out, I planned for my wedding to be June 2016, and she planned for hers to be February 2017. Last Friday she tells me that she is going to have her civil ceremony this coming week. Still wasn't a big deal, until today. She tells me that now she wants her wedding June 2016, 6 days after mine! I am not going to change my date, but I dont want this to come between us. How should I deal with this?