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  • Tell friend 1 that no unattached guests are being invited with plus-ones, so she didn't "forfeit" anything, and that this was a difficult decision for you and your FI to make, but you can't invite any plus-ones for her, including friend 2. Don't say anything to friend 2 at all unless she contacts you directly, in which case you can tell her that nobody is being invited as a plus-one.
  • The invitation was for her and her husband, if her husband can't go she is not entitled to bring someone else. Invitations are non transferable.
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  • Just tell her no. She can't bring Friend 2.
  • SP29SP29 member
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    Agree- invitations are not transferable. Tell Friend 1, "I am sorry but the invitation was for you and *John*, we cannot accommodate Friend 2". 
  • PPs have it covered.  Just wanted to reiterate that B-listing is rude.  It is unfortunate that you couldn't invite everyone you wanted to, but B-listing turns the invite into a consolation prize.  "Well, the person I really wanted to be there couldn't make it, so you'll make do, I guess."  


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  • Quoting fail.  Why the DD OP?  You just put the bat signal out!
  • We all fail for not quoting. It wasn't that interesting not sure why she DD.
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  • Came for the DD @sharasen - you're aware you just brought more attention to it, right?  Good job!
  • SP29SP29 member
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    And it is also poor internet forum etiquette to delete your post afterward because others can learn from your post too! 
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