I thank you all for your suggestions. I've decided to stick with my wish and have an October wedding. I didn't this year because a friend was going to be around the same time and she cancelled last minute, which sucks, but I don't want to have to rush it all for an april wedding starting now practically to just pick things because it's getting close. My fiance and I do catering so we have been busy with others' weddings, and with this we learn more and more about the process, meet more people, and it makes me want to have the wedding I want, not one tossed together last minute. I appreciate all the advice, I'll stop back in. If I can offer any suggestions, I'm here! Thanks all!