Our wedding is at a winery and is all grass. The only part that is not grass is the patio (where the buffet and then dancing will be), and the tasting room (where the restrooms are, and where the ceremony will be if it rains). As long as the weather is nice, the ceremony will be on grass, and regardless of weather the reception will be on grass under a tent.
I know it's rude to dictate what guests should wear, that's not what I'm trying to do. Would it be perceived as rude to put something on our website along the lines of "our venue is all grass, so while heels are allowed, we don't recommend them"? Obviously I need help making it sound nicer.
The winery is OOT for all guests, and just guessing that only about 2% of our guests have even heard of this winery.
Do, or don't? I don't want to come off as rude, just helpful!