So my H2B and I canceled the wedding that had been taken over by his mother. We have told all of our immediate family and now to just write out the letter and send to extended family! I’m excited because this is what I’ve wanted the whole time...I don’t like the idea of a large wedding (and our 50/60people wedding had quickly turned into 160+!) If anyone else has gone thru this, and has any ideas to give please do tell!:) H2B's mother is blaming this all on me and saying that I never listen to her ideas-even though I had bought a white dress and changed my color to coral from Dark Purple as I wanted...I have always wanted to wear a colored dress! My parents are TOTALLY and FULLY behind us-even to the point that they want to pay for us to be able to send out the announcement and everything!:) We are having dinner with H2B's aunt and grandparents on his mom's side-and they are saying to him at least that they are behind our choice and will back us up no matter what! So it isn’t all the family...just his Mom and the fact that she is blaming me on everything! Sorry that this was such a rant!!