I have deep concerns about my MOH. We have been friends for such a long time I felt obligated to make her my MOH. My big day is still 15 months away but I'm finding it hard to get a hold of her for the simple things. She just a got a new boyfriend and her life revolves around him. I already had my ask to be a BM/MOH dinner and she was announced but I have this feeling in the pit of my stomach that she is going to a pain in the butt to track down when I need her there when the date gets closer. I'm also afraid if I strip her of her title that she is going to remove herself completely.