Oh man, a snarky bride forum - just when I didn't really think The Knot was my kind of place!
I got engaged on Saturday and am very excited, but life is kind of in a whirlwind at the moment so planning a wedding seems even more crazy than usual.
A little backstory - my fiancee accepted a job offer that requires us to relocate by the end of this month. Obviously we have not given much thought to anything wedding-wise yet (other than me setting up a Pinterest for wedding colors and dresses!), but we know we are thinking we want to be married sometime next summer.
TBH i have never given much thought into getting married and am kind of leaning to eloping and then having a reception for our friends and family, partly because while I am job hunting and have had interviews I don't have anything lined up yet and that gives me anxiety - I have gone through a period of unemployment in the past and I really just want a smooth transition to a new job.
I am just feeling a little out of my element because I have no idea what I want and while I am very excited to be engaged, the whole feeling is a little surreal.