I've been very calm throughout the planning process, but not that RSVP's are coming in, I'm getting frustrated.
We aren't inviting kids under 12 years old. I followed all the rules of addressing envelopes (both inner and outer) and people aren't getting it. I just hate feeling like the bad guy because I have to actually tell people that their kids aren't invited. I am saying it in the nicest way possible and offering to help find a sitter (to be honest, I wouldn't know where to start for that) and that we would just like all the parents to have a good night out. I just want my guest to have a fun, worry free night.
I know this is probably a normal problem for everyone, but I'm just worried that people who have kids will just bring them anyways.