A little backstory, as someone who is lactose intolerant going to weddings or any sort of catered event is always a bit worrisome as you never really know for sure what does and does not have dairy in it. I always ask a staff member if there is a buffet and even with their advice i've had to make emergency trips to the bathroom on numerous occasions. So as a result, it has always been my dream to have only have food that I could eat at my wedding. My FI is aware of this odd request and is 100% on board with it. However, our parents think that its unreasonable that we want to have a dairy free wedding. What do you think? Is it unreasonable to want a wedding with no butter, cream, cheese etc.?