I just found out that the couple whose wedding we were supposed to go to in two weeks got married yesterday. The "Wedding" is in upstate New York, we live in Texas. It was already inconvenient as hell, because it's on a Wednesday. But they're our friends, we wanted to go. H took a week off work, I did not enroll in classes for the second summer term, we made travel arrangements. It's two weeks away, and they got married yesterday. I am furious. Had we known it was just a replay, we wouldn't have made plans to go. That's money better spent on fertility treatments and fixing our house. It's not like we can't afford to go, it's just, we would rather have made the decision to go or not knowing all the facts. They seriously couldn't wait two weeks?