So Iam trying to stay calm and not get too upset but I'm feeling discouraged/sad.
I've been engaged since October and asked my bridesmaids to b in my wedding early. Now it is about 7 months later and one of the girls just texted me to drop out. I have about 8 months left until my wedding. We are about to go bridesmaid dress shopping this next month.
Anyways she dropped out because she feels she can't commit the time. I understand. But now I am like concerned on what to do.
I have time to add someone else. But should I? I don't want anyone to feel second rate. Also what do I ask when the other girls ask about her?
Suggestions ladies.... Advice....
What do u do when u feel discouraged about it also? I feel like this friend of mine who I want to be a major part of my big day has chosen not to. Because she doesn't have the time. She says because she won't let anyone watch her 1 yr old (but she knows she can bring him to the dress apts, which r the only things going on). I guess I don't understand because I don't have children. I am staying calm and I just texted her when she dropped out via text and said I am sorry; I understand. I hope u can still attend the bridal shower and wedding when the time comes.