I am sending out STDs for our April 2016 wedding this weekend and I just found out (via Facebook) that my cousin and his girlfriend of 10 years have broken up for good (according to her). It looks like it's a really messy break up and there are talks on her part about a restraining order, etc.
Is it okay to not send them a STD and just wait until it's time to send out invites and see where they are in their relationship? I will keep both of them on the guest list and see how it plays out? Obviously, if they have restraining orders against each other, one or neither will get an invite.