I wasn't very familiar with the Dollar Dance before dating my fiance, so had no plans to do one at my wedding. But between last summer and this summer, we've gone to about 6 weddings on his side - friends and family but mostly friends. ALL of them have had a Dollar Dance so apparently it's normal in his circles. Almost none of my friends or family have gotten married yet so I'm not sure if it's done much on my side.
I personally haven't thought it was tacky at the weddings we went to, even though it was new to me. Yeah it's asking for money but I enjoy having some activities at weddings, and a dollar is hardly anything. I don't enjoy when they last too long, but that can be controlled. Some people on here have said they're awkward because no one dances, but that's definitely not been the case at the ones I've seen. Since my fiance's friends all do it, I'm sure many people would dance at ours. Also I don't have easily offended friends or family so I don't think they will mind.
So should we do it since it's a regular thing for my fiance's side? If it's normal and kind of fun we may as well, right? Or is this still a thing where everyone hates it besides small regional communities who are used to it?