So my best friend from High School is expecting to be my MOH. We only attended our first year of college together. We sort of grew appart after that since we were in different cities. I now feel like if I don't make an effort to talk to her, she does not talk to me at all. We even worked together one summer and sometimes at work she would just not speak to me at all without even saying why. There is another girl who I have grown closer to and now consider her my best friend. I also met her in High School and went to college 2 years together. Even though we don't live in the same city now we speak to eachother everyday. We speak wedding all the time and she is very excited about it and very happy for us. She even helped my now fiance in setting up a great proposal. Now, both girls happen to be cousins, And they are both my fiance's cousins. I really want my new best friend to be my MOH but I'm afraid my HS bestfriend will be hurt. I've considered having 2 MOH but it just seems weird to me. And the only reason why I would have 2 is just so that one does not get hurt. My best friend now says she would not be hurt if I didn't pick her, and I know she would not be, but I really want her by my side that day. I really don't know what to do here.