brother sister dance songs if father is deceased

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hi all, my father passed away 10 years ago & I'm having a hard time trying to find a good song to dance with my older brother. my father was a huge fan of the bee gees & chicago but my brother is more of the 80's era. He recommended Madonna- I'll Remember, but I think the beat is a little fast.. Does any one recommend any good songs? anything will help thanks.

Jen4948

You can have a dance with your older brother, but I wouldn't have it replace a father-daughter dance or have it as a spotlight dance.

That said, you could play a Bee Gees or Chicago song in memory of your father or remember him in another nice way.

MandyMost

I'd just pick any song that you and your brother like and want to dance to! Instead of a father/daughter (my father is also deceased) and mother/son dance, we had all of the immediate families all dance at the same time. We danced to Tom Petty's Wildflowers. A second choice was Queen's "You're my Best Friend". 

knottie2b256f5c2ae42586

Our mother has passed so my brother and I did a dance at his wedding. Honestly, I don't even remember the song. I remember being over at his apartment with his fiancé either the night before or a few nights before the wedding trying to decide which song to pick. I think his fiancé ended up choosing out of a few options they had come up with.

I DO remember that one of the options was "You've got a friend in me" from Toy Story. Looking back, I really wish we would've chosen that one. It sums us up better than the other song.