Planning my 2nd wedding and not sure of a few things. Looking for opinions please.
1. Is it acceptable to put on the invitation: "We want for nothing except for you to be part of our special day. In lieu of gifts, we ask that you make a donation to your favorite charity in our honor.".
2. We are not drinkers. Is it poor form to not have an open bar?
3. Can I send electronic save the dates? I will mail formal invitations but to me spending money on a save the date is bit unnecessary.
4. What services so we actually tip for? Photographer? Bridal consultant when choosing a gown or having alterations done? DJ? Caterer?
A lot has changed since my previous marriage in '93 and I don't want to be the topic of discussion in a bad way!
Thanks in advance for your opinions. Look forward to different views!