Dear Prudie,
Last spring I attended a work conference and really hit it off with one attendee in particular. We ended up having a romantic night together. I later found out that he was married. I am looking for a new job in my field and recently ran across a job opening where I would be working closely with this man as my boss. It is a great opportunity and I am well suited for the job. I have no intention of continuing the affair or trying to break up this marriage. Is it fair for me to apply to this job? And if I do, should I mention the incident from last spring?
—What Stays at the Conference