One of the Judges in the Court where I work lost a family member last weekend in a terrible car accident. A few of my coworkers want to go down there this afternoon to give their condolences. I was invited to join. I hardly know the Judge, although he is a very nice man. I feel awkward going down as part of a group to essentially ambush him at work to pay our respects for his loss. Am I being too sensitive? Would you go? What should I do? Does it change your opinion that the coworker who invited me is quite overdramatic?