I sent an invitation to my cousin, her boyfriend who lives with her, and her two sons. She is also a bridesmaid btw. She sent me a text earlier today that read: "Do I include myself in the RSVP number since I am in the wedding? It will be me, Matt and Ben (her sons), and Bob and his son". I did not invite her boyfriend's son...I've never even met him nor do I know anything about him at all.
Is it wrong for me to consider this rude? She didn't even ask if he could come...there are a lot of people we had to pass up on inviting because our budget is so tight.
I don't know what to do, I feel so awkward and I know she will get mad if I say her boyfriend's son isn't invited.