Okay, so take it easy on me because it seems like bridesmaids are sort of a touchy issue here but I am not sure what the proper protocol is here.
I just found out 2 weeks before my wedding that I have a bridesmaid who told a guy that she has a crush on that she would give him a ride to the wedding. She figured he would either come to my house while we're getting ready, or she would leave and pick him up and take him to the venue. We're all supposed to be getting to the venue 2 hours early, and getting dressed there!
She made these plans with him (and potentially invited him to my house while we're getting ready) without running it by me first.
I feel like I have been really chill, but I do feel a little irritated (Or a lot irritated) that she's offered to give someone a ride who is just going to be standing around while we're all getting ready without telling me. Are the bridesmaids not supposed to come to the venue early with the bride? That was the plan that we had all agreed on. I am just not sure if I am just overly sensitive because of wedding stress or if she's being a little unreasonable.