So I got engaged last Christmas and was super excited. My FI felt really srong about whom he wanted to ask even though I was hesitant to the number. Finally, I gave in and said we could each do 7 ppl, but now I am feeling tons of pressure with having so many attendants. Its so epensive with the limo and the gifts. I would really like to just cut the whole bridal party and only have a MOH. Do you think it is rude to ask all my attendents not to be in the wedding? If drop the party we could be saving 1000 to 1500 dollars. Or should I just suck it up?