I am trying to figure this out, if it's odd or normal. For my groomsmen, I want people who represent different stages of my adult life, and pick the people who were important during that stage, not necessarily people that I hang out with a lot now. I moved from West to East Coast 5 years ago. A good friend/old roommate of mine is still out there, and we don't really talk very much anymore, just because of work and timing and distance and all that.
Would it be weird if I asked him to be in the party? We text back and forth at this point and the few times we have seen each other it's been great, but mostly we're not big phone talkers so we almost never catch up on a normal basis.