I'm not a big drinker, but I was planning on at least having a glass of chardonnay at my wedding. My venue is a local historical building and the guy who is now in charge of the events there has been a nightmare to work with: he never showed-up for the meeting with the caterer (that he agreed to and arranged because it's a mandatory part of our contract with them) so my MIL forced him to give us the building code so we could get in with the caterer, he keeps calling me "Alexandria" when my name is "Alexandra," he says he contacted our caterer but then (more than once) has flipped the blame onto the caterer, onto me, onto whoever (my MIL called him on it). So now, today, he e-mails the catering staff that we didn't hire (because the woman wouldn't give me a breakdown of costs and she got my venue completely wrong) and asked if she was staffing our event!!! This is after at least a dozen e-mails giving him the name/contact/etc. of our caterer and staff. So on July 27th, I asked him about the alcohol license. He said he would call our caterer that week.
Did he call?
NOPE.
Just found out today when he e-mailed the person we never hired. Told me today that there's only a 50/50 chance now of getting the license (Massachusetts is nuts about this stuff) because it's 11 days before the wedding. The selectman have to approve the license and when are they meeting? They started meeting at 6:00pm tonight, which is PROBABLY why the guy thought he'd ask about the license when it wasn't on the agenda. I am so livid right now and mostly because this guy has dropped the ball so. many. times. and I have had to repeat myself in very specific, clear, concise e-mails over and over and over and over again. I just feel so disrespected and like I should just light $1500 on fire. This is my only vendor who has an absolute mess.
Now I'm concerned that the venue won't be set-up the night before (as we discussed in e-mail #458) so we can get in and do things nor will it be open on-time the afternoon of 9/26 for my caterer and DJ to get set-up! I am really, really concerned about this guy's competence and there doesn't seem to be anyone else on that board that I can see to ask about getting their act together! This is the only Bridezilla moment I've had and I'm slightly ashamed that it's over the liquor license, but really it's the culmination of things. I just feel so disrespected and frustrated right now.
Going to go look-up mocktail recipes now... maybe all my years of being an RA way back will come in handy here. Geez.