(probably because we barely see them)
MIL, sFIL, and GMIL are basically retired. sFIL does a Satuday morning radio show and does some announcing for hs soccer and college basketball. MIL volunteers.
MIL has been making noise lately that she never gets to see the kids. "Why did they get to spend 2 nights with 6's parents?" Because my parents asked and picked a date. Last time I tried to schedule something with MIL it was "the only day we have free is Tuesdays." You know a school day.
SFIL can't come to any soccer games because of the other team he announces for. sMIL and GMIL were supposed to come Saturday, but for some reason GMIL can't and now sMIL doesn't want to come because she "has to help" sFIL . Apparently they can only travel in packs now.
I know I'm the only one that can let her make me feel guilty, but I do feel guilty that she doesn't see the kids as much. On the flip side it's BY HER CHOICE.