Hello everyone! I am wondering about people's chose to change, hyphenate, or not change their name. I'm particularly interested in the decision-making process of people who went non-traditional routes.
I have always felt strongly about keeping my last name. I like my name, I have no brothers or male cousins on my father's side, and I have built a decent career with my current name. Taking my FH's name just seems unnecessary and more hassle than it's worth - he knows I love him regardless of what my last name is!
A couple of people have warned me about the difficulties of not having the same last name. Someone said I might have trouble adding FH to my health insurance or opening a joint bank account if we don't have the same last name. That does't sound right, but I've never gotten married before so...
The option we're considering right now is hyphenating. If we went that route, we would both hyphenate. How much of a pain is it to legally hyphenate both of our names? Has anyone else done this (both spouses hyphenate), and what brought you to that decision? Is there any practical reason (beyond tradition) to legally have the same last name?
Thank you in advance!