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harrisonamy

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ShesSoCold

At the risk of sounding like an ass, there really is nothing you can do besides get over it. 

Think about the good things of the day. Think about your husband and your marriage. Think about your future. Remember that no one who has been married for more than like a year still has that "ZOMG BEST DAY OF MY LIFE EVERRRRRRRRRRR" feeling. 

southernbelle0915

This is an attitude/perspective adjustment. The reality is that your wedding was what it was and you don't get a re-do. Sorry of that sounds like your family.

But you did get to marry the love of your life - which is kind of the whole point anyway. So it wasn't horrible. The important/meaningful stuff got done and the frills and thrills didn't turn out. Oh well.

harrisonamy

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6fsn

It's hard for a bunch of strangers to be able to know what will make you feel better.  If pics of your dress will help do it.  If an anniversary trip will help do it. 

I think it's pretty assy to equate a bad wedding day to depression. 

VarunaTT

So, I was trying for nice, but has it really been almost 2 years?

I don't think anyone here is going to have much different advice than your family.  There's nothing you can do to change it.  If you're really having this hard of a time, you might need some professional help.

ShesSoCold

6fsn said:

It's hard for a bunch of strangers to be able to know what will make you feel better.  If pics of your dress will help do it.  If an anniversary trip will help do it. 

I think it's pretty assy to equate a bad wedding day to depression. 

I was just about to say the same thing.

OP, comparing clinical depression to not having a fairy tale wedding is pretty offensive. You need some perspective. 

mrsconn23

ShesSoCold said:

6fsn said:

It's hard for a bunch of strangers to be able to know what will make you feel better.  If pics of your dress will help do it.  If an anniversary trip will help do it. 

I think it's pretty assy to equate a bad wedding day to depression. 

I was just about to say the same thing.

OP, comparing clinical depression to not having a fairy tale wedding is pretty offensive. You need some perspective. 

That doesn't seem to be her strong suit if she's been married for almost 2 years and still wallowing about her not-quite-as-perfect-as-she-hoped wedding day. 

mrsconn23

DAMN IT!  We forgot the golden rule...C+P that shit early.  

harrisonamy

mrs.conn23 said:

DAMN IT!  We forgot the golden rule...C+P that shit early.  

harrisonamy

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Heffalump

harrisonamy said:

I'll just delete this post now. i feel so sorry for the people in your lives that lean on each of you for advice and support.

I feel sorry for your husband:  you've been married for two years and it's still not good enough for you because you didn't like your dress or your cake or whatever.

mrsconn23

Ummm...

mrsconn23

FTR, I don't see much wrong with being fat or sucking dick.  But Amy sure does.

Heffalump

harrisonamy said:

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@mrs.conn23:  is this true? 

mrsconn23

Heffalump said:

harrisonamy said:

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@mrs.conn23:  is this true? 

NOLABridesmaid

What happened while I was gone?

mrsconn23

NOLABridesmaid said:

What happened while I was gone?

My sexual proclivities and approximate size have been outed.   

VarunaTT

NOLA, OP didn't plan her wedding well, had a bad wedding, had a bad wedding planner, had a photograph disaster and is tired of her family telling her to get over it.  All things people somewhat sympathized about until she 1. compared her situation to telling a depressed person to "get over it" and 2. I figured out it'd been 2 years since disastrous wedding. 

FWIW, I don't think anyone was rude.  You just didn't like the:

ShesSoCold

Dammit.  My fault. 

Seriously, though, OP. What are you looking for from us? A pat on the head and a "there, there, child"? 

Jen4948

Oh boy.  DD.

MNNEBride

Geez Louise, I have to work for awhile and all hell breaks loose here.  FWP indeed!

tawillers

I missed it!

6fsn

2 years?!