Two types of women/brides I need to snark about right now:
1. Brides who (on these boards particularly, but actually humans in general who do this) say "I'm actually a really generous person," "I always put other people before myself, even if it hurts me," "I'm very selfless," etc. ad nauseum = liars. Sorrynotsorry, if you have to say it, you are defending you're not-at-all-selfless behavior and therefore are not selfless. BYE.
2. Brides/women (particularly women who are not currently planning a wedding) who are all like "I would never spend X amount on a wedding" or "I would never buy a dress I could only wear once" or "I would never do X wedding thing." That is so super interesting, thanks for sharing. I really appreciated your judgmental response to the wedding plans you asked me about or in the conversation you joined without invitation. I also appreciate your commentary on an event you are not planning, as I'm sure you will 1000000% stick to all of these very important decisions if you ever plan one.
Okay, mini-rant over. Wedding planning/talk just brings out the best in everyone, no?