My wedding is on a Thursday in October (no holiday) we chose it because it was less expensive and most of our guests word in trades (security, hair, nails, retail, ect) where weekends are the times they are busiest. I also thought it would be,less expensive for our OOT guests to fly as opposed to,flying on a weekend. I was told recently by a client, who is not invited but asked for details on my wedding when she saw my ring, that this was bad ettiqutte as people would have to take off work an extra day since the wedding goes late (it's over at 10. We are,leaving for our honeymoon before it ends, it's a 4 hour ceremony/reception total so no after party or day after hooplah) Am I being rude?