I'd appreciate input on two thank-you note related questions.
(1) H and I received many gifts before the actual wedding, and I got all of those notes out within 2 weeks of receiving them. However, I know that it's typical to thank guests for attending the wedding (so for example, several friends who didn't bring gifts are still getting notes thanking them for making the trip). Does this mean I should be writing additional thank-yous to anyone we already thanked who then attended the wedding?
(2) My mother is insisting that we provide copies of specific pictures to specific relatives who were not able to make the wedding with their thank-you notes (or, in one case, with a second thank-you note for the same gift). Is this typical? Am I supposed to be doing this for everyone who didn't make the wedding -- or everyone, period?