Just needed a place to vent for a minute. Our wedding is in 5 days!! and my FMIL from the start seems to have missed the point that the wedding is about her son and I (I'd also include our immediate families in there as well). She obsesses about what time her hair/make-up will start/end, what her dress will look like, how we will fit in pictures with her 2nd cousins and her aunts, etc -- all family my FI hasn't seen for 7 years. A common discussion point is also what her older son, and dare I say favorite child, did for his wedding 7 years ago. He is also the father to her grandson so, again he can do no wrong.
I know that I can't change her but it would be great to hear what others have done to tune out an FMIL like this.