Hi... I'm reaching out for some thoughts and advice on...
I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now. I'm 32 and he is 37. Ever since we met he has never wanted to hold hands, hug, cuddle or even kiss much. The only time he is real touchy, feely is when he want to be sexual. I feel used at times because even after we are sexual he had no interest in being close.
I've talked to him about it and how it makes me feel. He has said he will try to do better. There hasn't been a very big change. He hints about us getting married and staying together forever. I'm just not feeling it...
He is a caring and overall good person and treats me good. Its like he never thinks of being intimate unless he is ready for something sexual.
Any thoughts?? How would you move forward or should I date more to see if I find someone better? I've dated a lot and want to settled down but I seem to always find something that keeps me from marriage.