My FI and I are going to his mom's house for Thanksgiving this year. I'm vegetarian, but I am gradually making my way toward veganism. His mom let me know what she has in mind for snacks and dinner, but my options are a bit limited, mainly because everything will have cheese/butter in it.
Would it be rude to ask her to set aside a portion for me before she adds any dairy to it?
I have already offered to bring one or two veggie dishes.
I don't want to come off as needy or picky. I'm just really trying to stick to my morals.