This is why you just keep things to yourself.

mrsconn23

Dear Prudence,
I’m a fortysomething divorcee and mother. For the last nearly four years, I have been seeing a wonderful young masseuse about twice a month. When I first started going to her, there were a lot of strategically placed towels. Over the years, my comfort level with her has changed and we have become friends. Nowadays, we don’t bother with towels, and I don’t worry that I get somewhat aroused. Over the last four sessions, her massages have finished in a female version of a happy ending. While I know this is frowned upon and maybe illegal depending how you look at it, I don’t see any problem with what happens. We are both adults and I pay her for her massage, not for the extra. Recently I told one of my close girlfriends about it. She was shocked and told me I must report her. Am I crazy that I enjoy this me-time? Is it really that bad?

—Massage Delight

MesmrEwe

Loose lips sinks ships!

monkeysip

I'm just wondering how the heck that came about.  Like, if they were both into each other and this massage session became mutually sexual, well ok, that's a little complicated, but not necessarily report worthy.

But I'm just imagining the masseuse just deciding to start doing sexual things to her at the end of the massage without asking or anything.  THAT is kind of alarming.  Obviously this woman enjoys it and doesn't object, but certainly a masseuse shouldn't start doing things like that to someone.

Knottie1428763015

What is this post even...doing here?

MobKaz

Knottie1428763015 said:

What is this post even...doing here?

If you peruse this board, you will see that letters from Dear Prudence are a common occurence. It's simply a way to spark discussions or have a little fun.

Knottie1445433869

I see. I'll continue to lurk.

*Barbie*

Knottie1445433869 said:

I see. I'll continue to lurk.

@Knottie1445433869 - if you have something more interesting to share, please do.

NOLABridesmaid

Yes, more convos, please.