As I sit and type this, I'm slightly nervous. My FH has never been married, this is my 3rd. I know if I talk to my mother about this, she'll tell me to be practical and just go to the JOP. I don't want to do that, I want it to be memorable for him and for me as this is the last time I plan on doing this. He is everything I've asked for and both of us kinda want to go the way of a country/cowboy themed wedding as we're both from a small town.
I just really am looking for anyone else in a similar point, and that I'm not crazy for not knowing what to really do in this situation.