I have been sending suggestions of BM dresses to my MOH for styles that I like and think will work for what I have in mind. Every option I send her she doesn't like something about. I have told her I would prefer no strapless dresses, even if that's what they like because I have seen too many people end up pulling up the dresses and adjusting them and I would rather my MOH & BM not worry about it. Strapless are the only styles the MOH is sending me... At what point can I draw the line and say this is the style of dress you are getting? I am also trying to stay on a budget for them but finding a dress my MOH likes seems like it is never going to happen. My BM is my cousin and absolutely okay with anything because she was just thrilled I asked her to be in my party.