I very much appreciate that our closest friends and family stood next to us on our wedding day, but I am curious if that also means they were exempt from gifts? I know money was not an issue but 3 of my 5 bridesmaids didn't send anything (one was married last year, too) and I'm just wondering if I'm in the wrong thinking it's rude that they didn't even send a card or say anything. I took care of a lot of their day-of obligations so they were only in charge of buying their dresses and shoes (personal choice, I didn't not pick anything specific for them to wear) and their makeup. Please let me know what you think, thank you!