So, I've got 2 definite yes bridesmaids/men, and my other half has 2 definite yes groomsmen.
I did have three bridesmaids (two men (D & G), one woman (C), but I found out this morning that the other half asked D to be his groomsman. Long story short, we've both been friends with this guy for YEARS and he's basically family.
Anyhoo, we asked him whose party he wants to be in (as long as he's there, I'm a happy bunny), and his reaction was thus - "BOTH!"
So, I'm just wondering if there are any bridal-party-neutral roles (aside from ushers, we don't need those

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