So my bridal party all have black dresses that meet the diocese requirements for coverage. They look pretty together, they all fit together in appearance well enough and I'm happy with that. The dresses are all shorter - knee to tea length - and softer looking.
I'm wearing BHDLN Dakota http://www.bhldn.com/shop-the-bride-wedding-dresses/dakota-gown/productoptionids/fbcaeb8b-b90b-4e9a-9313-32da085940dd
with their Marnie topper http://www.bhldn.com/the-bride-bridal-cover-ups/marnie-topper/productoptionids/fbcaeb8b-b90b-4e9a-9313-32da085940dd
But how do I dress my younger girls? Two will be 5 & 6 year olds as flower girls, one will be 8 as ring bearer and one will be almost 10 who will be bringing up Mary's flowers - which she's done before and asked to do again vs junior bridesmaid. I'm not a huge fan of the mini bride look, but I can't see putting them in black dresses either.