I have three friends I want in my wedding. One I've known for over 20 years. So by default she is my maid of honor. But I have another friend that I'm closest to. She is very helpful and willing to help with anything. She has the time and dedication. She helped my fiance come up with a proposal! Anyway, I can see how she would be a better fit as the maid of honor but I can't do that to my oldest friend. (I would be mad if it was done to me.) So, is it possible to have TWO maids of honor? Or do I just name the second one a bridesmaid and ask her to help the MOH? HELP! Thanks!!!