I feel like my question falls at the intersection of a couple potential boards, but thought I'd start here. Bear with me!
So: my fiancé and I are planning to have a small (read: 45-48) guest list. We have an extremely tight budget in NYC and found a fantastic restaurant that could fit it. The event space actually has a physical limitation of 48 people. There are locals, who are friends, that if we had a larger budget or more space, I'd have liked to include. But, in the interest of both space and budget, I did have to focus on closest friends and family.
We're having a brunch reception, and what he and I had thought we'd do is have an afterparty that night at a bar, reserve some seats, and buy a bar tab/some small snacks and we'd be able to celebrate with more people. Plus, there's not really a lot of room for dancing at our venue so we figured this would be our chance to ~party down~. We've both, independently, been invited to parties like this after a small wedding, which is why the idea crossed our minds.
My question here is just related to: how should I invite people to the afterparty?
I've elected to create a wedding website here on The Knot, and my plan was to have an online RSVP option for my guests (plus sending out paper response cards just in case someone is the opposite of me and can manage to mail one on time). I'd thought I could use it to share details for the afterparty for our friends, but now as I am getting into editing the wedding's guest list, I'm dubious about having a secondary RSVP set up for people not invited to the wedding.
Should I leave the wedding website strictly for the wedding guests and maybe just invite afterparty guests separately? Or is there nothing wrong in sharing the wedding website with everyone?
I do tend to overthink pretty mundane things, and I suspect that's probably happening here, but figured it's worth asking. Thanks!