How did your family and friends react? We've had major setbacks and decided to push our wedding a year and lately we've been talking about either eloping just the two of us or just inviting my family and his close friends who are like family to him. Money is super tight and most likely will be for a while...I am,looking for another job, and he is talking to the VA about job placement (he is 90% disabled from his time in the Navy and can't do they physical jobs he's used to.)