Before my fiancé and I officially got engaged I asked a friend (who I thought to be a close friend at the time) to be my maid of honor as well as have her son be our ring bearer after a few drinks. I have realized that I have been a better friend to her than she has to me and it's not really a relationship I want to put energy into anymore. She is negative and somewhat toxic for my life. Now that I am officially engaged and making plans I don't really want her to be in the wedding... Help! Is it wrong for me to ask someone else now when I know it will hurt her feelings?