Not sure where to begin...
My SO and I have been together for 2 years, both divorced, with 2 kids each. Marriage is a topic that has been discussed since pretty early on in our relationship.
We went once to casually look at rings last summer. We both got an idea of what we wanted. In December we decided to take a trip to the jeweler after Christmas. I still had my original wedding set and we wanted to talk to them again about trade vs consign... With Valentine's Day coming up, I was thinking it would be a good time to get my diamond in there and hope that it would be sold within a couple months. Thinking that when we got the money from that, SO would go back and buy the E-Ring. Well, we ended up doing the trade that day and walked out of the store purchasing all 3 rings. I was absolutely shocked that it actually happened that day! But super excited! The rings were ordered and we were told they would be in in 3 weeks or so.
I told SO that I wanted him to pick them up and I didn't want to see the E-Ring until "the day"... Well, I told my BFF we made the purchase and she got me totally wedding crazed. (She's excited because I eloped the first time around and haven't experienced any of the "wedding" stuff... including a proposal!) I originally thought I would be OK with the idea of knowing he had the ring and waiting to be surprised with the proposal. But since that day - it's all I can think about. We joked a little bit about places he could propose and he keeps teasing me that it won't be for 9+ months, etc... Other than that, I haven't really brought up proposing at all...
My BFF started sending me venues and then I started looking as well.. I mentioned to SO and he even suggested we go check 2 of them out. We have 2 tours scheduled next week... Is it strange that he wants to do that before we are even engaged?
Today I got really emotional - He got the call that all 3 rings were finally in and I am feeling so overwhelmed with emotion. I came to the conclusion that I am mad at myself for being apart of the ring purchase. I completely regret it. I thought I could handle it, but I now know that I am going to drive myself crazy. I wish I knew nothing! I know so many of you have been in the same boat... How am I supposed to "forget" about all of this and distract myself??