Soooo FI's (very large) extended family doesn't appear to be too concerned with etiquette. Wedding fundraisers, cash bars, long gaps, you name it.
This has made for some interesting conversations with FI when planning our wedding. Thankfully he's completely committed to being a good host to our guests - mainly because he's just a good host in general.
Does anyone have success (or horror) stories when it comes to explaining etiquette to your partners/FIs?
"No, your cousin can't just 'transfer' her husband's invite to her son if her husband can't make it. Because. Because the son is not invited. BECAUSE."