So far, wedding planning has been really fun and low-stress for me. However, I am having so much trouble figuring out who will be in my bridal party. Sometimes I want to include 8 or 9 of my closest girl friends; other times I want to keep it at 4: my two sisters, and my two best friends. There are a handful of girls I could definitely see myself up there with, but people keep telling me to keep it small. My fiancé has selected 5 friends for his groomsmen. Any advice?