Brides maids

laxchick20183

Hey everyone,I was thinking about how would be best to be one of my brides maids.  How do you choose?  I'm very confused.  I was thinking of choosing one of my friends that I thought was my best friend, but lately I'm seeing that she is not the greatest friend.  I just feel like if i dont chose her it would cause bigger problems with our friendship.  I'm not sure what to do.  In need of help.

saisongbird

Two things - first, your MOH should pop right into your head. If you're not sure, than don't ask her to be the MOH. Second - your wedding is just under THREE YEARS AWAY. I know you're excited, but please please please please please wait until you are closer to one year away from the wedding (AKA 2001) to select anyone. You might make a new friend who you'd want as a bridesmaid, current friendships can change...and once you ask someone, you can't "unask" them. You have the benefit of time. Don't ask ANYONE yet.

Dee1984

saisong hit the nail on the head! Wait it out! Lots of things can change in that period of time!

alithebride

you have 3 years until your wedding!!!!!don't make any choices about this until at minimum a year before. also-we dont know you or your friends or the situation, how are we supposed to answer you? honestly-i'm not being snarky-but really-what do you want us to say?

jilliibabii

I agree with the pp, don't ask anybody yet. Wait until under a year out! I wish I did!!