I'm not sure if this should go in here or the etiquette board, so please move if it's not appropriate.
We currently live in the same state as most of my FH's family, so we would like to have our ceremony & reception here (state A). However, I grew up in a different state (state
, and have some family/friends there that would be unable to travel, so we plan to have a second reception or dinner of some sort there as well.
Family and close friends will be invited to (but not expected to attend) both events. My question is, for people we are only inviting to the reception in state B, how do we convey on the invitation that the ceremony will take place on a different time/date? I thought about only including the RSVP card for the reception in state B, which would convey that pretty clearly, but then I wasn't sure what to do for the STDs.