so i am just slightly confused on something, is there someone that should be escorting my mom down the isle? my mom is divorced, and my father isn't around. and Fiances parents are deceased as well. so trying to figure out who would play this role.
my son is playing two parts as a groomsmen and walking me down, do i have him escort his nana too?
Re: walking the isle questions
She doesn't need anyone to walk her at all, either. If she is comfortable walking alone, that would be perfectly fine. If you are close with her, you could also consider having her walk you down the aisle with your son.
Are you having any BMs? If so, if you have your son escort your mom down the aisle, he can circle back around down a side aisle (while your BMs process) to then escort you down the aisle. Or you could have your FI escort your mom down, then he goes to take his place up front.
Do you have any uncles? Brothers? It's not a requirement, but I think it's nice if you plan on her being part of the processional.
I like the idea of your son walking her down the circling around to walk you down.
If you did want her to be in the processional tough I kind of like the idea of yor FI walking her down. I think it's sweet and kind of exemplifies that they are becoming family. Then your son could walk back with her during the recessional.
Also (because it bothers me), the word you want is aisle, not isle. Unless of course you are getting married on a teeny tiny island such that your aisle takes up the entire length of said isle.
I think it would be sweet for your FI to walk down your mom.
So we basically just picked a friend of the family (and gave my mom input into who it was) to walk her down the aisle. We basically would have let her pick anyone.
For my brother's wedding, I don't remember the aisle processional, but they announced everyone into the reception. In that case my mom was escorted by her uncle (the announced "Mother of the Groom Jane Doe, escorted by Uncle Jim", for example). It was the same uncle who walked her down the aisle at her own wedding 30 years earlier, so it was really sweet, actually.